Dwelling in a Sukkah in the Rain

Dear members and friends of Etz Ahaim:

Chag Sameach to all of you, I hope you are all doing well, and you are all ready and prepared for Chag HaSukkot. As you know, the weather forecast predicts rainy weather tonight which will affect the Mitzvah of sitting in the Sukkah. We all hope and pray that it will not rain this night, and we will be able to fulfill the great mitzvah of sitting in the Sukkah. But, if it will rain, there are a few Halachot that we should be aware of. 

  1. Sepharadim, according to the Halacha, are exempt from sitting in the Sukkah when it rains, even on the first night, as we understand from the Shulchan Aruch (Siman 639). Some even hold that you are not allowed to be strict and sit in the Sukkah, even on the first night (Shu”t Binyan Shlomo).

  2. If one wants to be strict and wait until the rain stops and then enter the Sukkah, they may do so, and it’s even recommended. This is as long as they won’t wait so much that it will ruin their Simchat Yom Tov.

  3. Even those that want to eat in the Sukkah on the first night while it’s raining must only say Shehechianu, without the Bracha of Leishev BaSukkah (and this is what Ashkenazim do in the first place).

  4. If one is sitting at home and it stops raining before midnight, they need to sit in the Sukkah, eat a piece of bread the size of a KeZait, and to bless Leishev BaSukkah. But, if they decides to eat more than KaBaitza, he can say Leishev BaSukkah even after midnight. 

  5. One is allowed to spill water from the table and the chairs onto floor, even if he will spill onto the dirt ground (Chut HaShani).

  6. One is allowed to dry the table and the chairs with a towel if there is only a small amount of water. If he is unsure, he should use many towels.

  7. If the Schach moved by the wind, one is allowed to ask a non-Jew to put it back.

Wishing you all a dry and joyful Chag. I am looking forward to seeing you all tonight despite the rain.

Rabbi Eliyahu Tal

How to Choose an Etrog

Grafted Etrogim

According to the majority of Poskim a grafted etrog is not kosher for the mitzvah at all. So much so, that if one says a beracha on it, the beracha is in vain. Therefore, every store needs to have certification showing that their etrogim are not grafted.

The certification also needs to show that terumot and maasrot were taken from these etrogim, and that they are not orlah (from a tree in its first 3 years).

There are three ways to identify a grafted etrog.

  1. Grafted etrogim are smooth. Kosher etrogim should have a bumpy surface.

  2. Grafted etrogim have the stem sticking out. Kosher etrogim should have recessed stems.

  3. Grafted etrogim have thin and juicy peels. Kosher etrogim have much dryer, thicker peels.

Etrog Which is Missing a Part of the Fruit

If a part of the etrog is missing, it cannot be used on the first day of Sukkot. Likewise, if the etrog has been punctured, and a part of the fruit was removed because of this puncture, it is unfit for use for the mitzvah.

Some etrogim grow with an external pitam (the thin protrusion at the bottom of the etrog). If it fell off entirely, it is unfit for use for the mitzvah. But if the shoshanta falls off (the crown-like piece on top of the pitam), it is still kosher.

If the stem at the top of the etrog that connected it to the tree is broken off, it is unfit for use for the first day of Sukkot.

The Yemenite etrogim grow without an external pitam, and despite this they are kosher to use for the mitzvah.

Black Spots on the Etrog

Wrong Color and Black Spots

A black or white dot that is found on the top section of the etrog (from where it starts to narrow) disqualifies the etrog for the first day of Sukkot. But for Ashkenazim it is disqualified all of Sukkot. Black spots also disqualify it if they are found on the pitam. The reason is because people usually look at the top of the etrog, so it must be clean.

If the dot was found below the place where the etrog narrows, it is kosher even for the first day of Sukkot. But if there are two or more dots, Sepharadim disqualifies it for all of Sukkot. For Ashkenazim it is kosher for use for the mitzvah, unless dots are found on both the top and the bottom parts of the etrog.

Only black and white dots that are part of the etrog, and can't be removed through cleaning the etrog, disqualify it. Any other color of dots is permissible.

Many times there are leaves attached to the etrog (bletlach). Those leaves do not disqualify the etrog, as long as one cannot feel that the leaf is sticking out from the surface of the etrog. The majority of etrogim in our days that have these leaves do not stick out from the surface of the etrog, and are therefore kosher to use lechat’hila.

The Color of the Etrog

The best color is yellow or gold all over the etrog. Light green is kosher lechat’hila. A dark green color that is the same shade as grass is disqualified.

The Shape of the Etrog

Etrogs that are too round

The shape of the etrog needs to be wide in the middle, and narrow as it gets to the top. The pitam needs to be opposite the stem, but if it is not it is still kosher – it is just not the choicest etrog. The etrog cannot be round like a ball.


Weight of an Etrog

Definitely a big enough etrog

A kosher etrog needs to weigh at least 100 grams of 3 ½ ounces. The etrog can be bigger, even if you would need to carry it on your shoulder. The overwhelming majority of etrogim in the market are the normal weight.

A dry etrog from last year may not be used, but if it was placed in a freezer it can be checked with a needle with a string attached to it. If the needle is pushed in and the string comes out wet, one can use that etrog.

Shomer Shabbat Scouting

Are You Interested in Scouting?

Speak with leaders of the local groups and find out if Scouting is right for your kids.
They share the following things in common:

  1. Love of Scouting

  2. Shomer Shabbat

  3. Kashrut Observance

Enjoy everything Scouting has to offer: leadership, creativity, outdoors, community service and more.

  • Girl Scouts are for girls in grades K-12

  • Boy Scout Troop 55 is for boys in grades 6-12

  • Cub Scout Pack 5 is for kids in grades K-5


Girl Scouts is affiliated with Girl Scouts USA

Boy Scouts and Cub Scouts are affiliated with Scouts BSA

High Holiday Schedule 2023

CEMETERY Visits — Sunday, September 10

  • Meet at Etz Ahaim Cemetary, New Brunswick: 11:30am

  • Meet at Floral Park Cemetary: 1:30pm

Rosh Hashanah Evening — Friday, September 15

  • Selichot and Shaḥarit: 6:00am

  • Hatarat Nedarim: 7:10am

  • Minḥa and Arvit: 6:40pm

  • Candle Lighting: 6:48pm

First Day of Rosh Hashanah — Saturday, September 16

Youth Program (Ages 3 to 8): 10:00am to 1:00pm

No Shofer Blowing on Shabbat

  • Shaḥarit

    • Korbanot: 8:30am

    • Hodu: 8:45am

  • Tashlich (Donaldson Park Boat Ramp): 5:20pm

  • Eat Se’udah Sh’lishit before Minḥa

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:40pm

  • Candle Lighting: after 7:35pm

Second Day of Rosh Hashanah — Sunday, September 17

Youth Program (Ages 3 to 8): 10:00am to 1:00pm

No Shofer Blowing on Shabbat

  • Shaḥarit

    • Korbanot: 8:30am

    • Hodu: 8:45am

  • Shofar: 12:15pm

  • Makeup Shofer Blowing: 6:10pm

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:40pm

  • Rosh Hashanah Ends: 7:31pm

Fast of Gedaliah — Monday, September 18

  • Fast Begins: 5:19am

  • Selichot and Shacharit: 6:00am.

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:30pm

  • Fast Ends: 7:32pm

Yom Kippur Evening — Sunday, September 24

  • Selichot and Shacharit: 7:15am.

  • Hatarat Nedarim: 7:20am.

  • Mincha: 2:00pm

  • Fast Starts and Candle Lighting: 6:33pm

  • Kal Nidre: 6:40pm

Yom Kippur Day — Monday, September 25

Youth Program (3 to 8 Years Old): 10:30am to 1:30pm

  • Shacharit:

    • Akeidat Yitzchak: 8:30am

    • Hodu: 8:45am

  • Sermon: 11:45am

  • Yizkor: 12:30pm

  • Mincha: 4:00pm

  • Ne'ilah: 6:00pm

  • Shofar Followed by Arvit: 7:31pm

  • Fast Ends: 7:31pm

Erev Sukkot — Friday, September 29

  • Shacharit: 6:30am

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:20pm

  • Candle Lighting: 6:25pm

First Day of Sukkot — Shabbat, September 30

  • Shacharit: 8:45am

    • Followed by Kiddush in the Sukkah Sponsored by the Daughters of Etz Ahaim

    • Eat Seudah Shlishit before Mincha

  • Mincha: 3:00pm

  • Arvit: 7:05pm

  • Candle Lighting: after 7:09pm (No cooking until candle lighting)

Second Day of Sukkot — Sunday, October 1

  • Shacharit: 8:45am

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:20pm

  • Festival Ends: 7:10pm

  • Havdalah: 7:10pm

Hoshannah Rabbah Night — Thursday October 5

  • Tikkun/Learning Program: 11:30pm

Erev Shemini Atzeret — Friday, October 6

  • Shacharit: 6:30am

  • Mincha and Arvit: 6:10pm

  • Candle Lighting: 6:14pm

Shemini Atzeret — Shabbat, October 7

  • Shacharit: 8:45am

  • Yizkor: 10:30am

    • Eat Seudah Shlishit before Mincha

  • Mincha: 3:00pm

Simchat Torah Evening — Saturday, October 7

  • Arvit: 7:00pm

    • Followed by Dancing and Festivities

  • Candle Lighting: after 7:05pm

Simchat Torah — Sunday, October 8

  • Shacharit: 8:45am

    • Followed by Kiddush and Hakafot

  • Second Hakafot: 5:30pm

  • Mincha and Arvit 6:10pm

  • Havdalah: 7:05pm

  • Festival Ends: 7:05pm

    Hashem Gives Special Blessings to those who come on time!

Schedule and Halakhot for Tish'a Be'Av

The Final Meal (Seudah Mafseket) 

  1. On 8 Av (July 26) - During the final meal before the fast, it is forbidden to eat more than one cooked food. We don't eat meat or drink wine, we also don't eat fish; the custom is to eat boiled egg for the final meal.

  2. The custom is to eat the final meal before the fast while sitting on the ground (not directly on the ground but on a blanket or a piece of cloth).

  3. The halakot of Tish'a Be'Av are the same both at night and during the day: everyone must stop eating before sunset of the day before. It is strictly forbidden to eat during Twilight just as it is on Yom Kippur.

  4. Everyone must take off the leather shoes before sunset of Tish'a Be’Av.

Tish’a Be’Av Schedule for 5783

Wednesday, July 26

  • Minḥa on July 26 at - 7:55pm

  • The fast begins on 8 Av (July 26 ) at 8:10pm

  • Al Naharot Bavel Arvit and Kinot at 8:25pm

  • Our sages instituted the passage of *Nahem* to be recited in the Amida ot Tish'a Be’Av.  It is located in the blessing of Tishkon and it should be recited in all three prayers of Tish'a Be’Av.

Thursday, July 27

  • Shacharit with Torah reading and haftarah at 8:00am. We don't wear tallit and tefillin during Shacharit; only at Minḥa. It is best to put on tefillin at home before going to the synagogue for Shacharit.

  • Reading of the book of Ekha and Kinot at 9:10am 

  • Etz Ahaim will be hosting an inspiring film about “iron faith” at 6:20pm. The event is sponsored by our dear friend Josh Hakohen.

  • Mincha (with tallit and tefillin and Birkat Kohanim) at 7:45pm, followed by Arvit

  • The fast ends at 8:49 pm

Another Wonderful Rosh Hodesh Evening

Women from all over the community gathered to hear Rebbetzin Esther Lewis speak and enjoyed an art project. "This renewal of the moon shall be a beginning of renewals for you."

The women were given the letters Aleph-Bet (the letters of the month of Av), and they decorated the letters as inspired by the talk and by their own imagination with crayons, colored pencil, and collage.

Shaving on Friday, April 21

Dear Members and Friends, 

For the last few weeks I have been asked by many Sefardim in our town if we can be lenient this year and shave on this coming Friday, since it would be in honor of Shabbat and Rosh Chodesh. You can be lenient if needed, but if you can wait until Lag BaOmer, or even until Shavuot according to the Kabbalah, it is better. 

For more details on this conclusion, check the button below. 

Sincerely,

Eliyahu Tal

Guidelines for Purchasing Chometz After Pesach 2023

One may not eat or derive benefit from chometz which was owned by a Jew during Pesach. The following is a partial list of local stores and their status regarding the purchase of chometz.

  1. Vaad supervised stores: are acceptable for the purchase of chometz. The Vaad encourages the community to patronize local kosher establishments whenever possible.

  2. Dunkin Donuts (under Vaad supervision): baked items may be purchased after 9:30pm, Motzo’ei Yom Tov (April 13). In general, throughout the year, one should wait one hour after the end of Shabbat or Yom Tov before purchasing Dunkin Donuts baked products.

  3. Stores in general: the following list (a. – e.) is ordered from the most halachically preferable to the least preferable, based on the measure of Jewish ownership in the store’s chometz.  An explanation for the hierarchy will be explained in the footnotes.

    1. Aldi, BJ’s, Costco, CVS, Duane Read, H Mart, Rite Aid, Sam’s Club, Target (NOTE: not frozen chometz items), Trader Joe’s, Walgreen’s, Walmart (in-store purchases), Wegman’s and Whole Foods.  These stores and their suppliers are non-Jewish owned, and it is unquestionably permitted to purchase chometz in these establishments immediately after Pesach.

    2. Acme has minority Jewish ownership of less than 50%, and there is halachic justification to purchase chometz in Acme after Pesach.

    3. Select ShopRite stores (non-Jewish owned):  Aberdeen, Bound Brook, Chatham, East Brunswick, East Windsor, Edison, Elizabeth, Lawrenceville, Livingston, Marlboro, Millburn, Morristown, Neptune, Sommerset, Springfield, Union, West Orange: there is halachic justification to purchase chometz in these stores after Pesach, since these stores are non-Jewish owned, even though their supplier (known as Wakefurn) has partial Jewish ownership, which is less than 50%.

    4. Stop & Shop: overt chometz may be purchased from Lag B’Omer on (Tuesday, May 9).  (Overt chometz includes cereal, cookies, crackers, pretzels, grains, and flour. Products which contain vinegar, such as mayonnaise, ketchup, and mustard, may be purchased, since it is probable that the vinegar is not chometz.)

    5. Some Shoprite stores that are Jewish-owned (see above part c; the ShopRite stores not listed in part c should be considered Jewish owned):  overt chometz may be purchased from Lag B’Omer on (Tuesday, May 9).  

  4. Online companies such as Amazon.com and Walmart.com sell products from their own inventory or from suppliers. Chometz from their own inventory is acceptable, but chometz from a supplier may come from a Jewish owned company. Therefore, the customer needs to make a reasonable effort to determine whether the supplier is Jewish.

  5. Non-chometz items: may be purchased from any Jewish or non-Jewish-owned store (e.g., fruit, vegetables, eggs, cooking oil, etc.)

  6. Alcoholic beverages (except for wine):  may not be purchased from a Jew who did not sell his chometz until after Shavuot, since they are either definitely chometz or possibly chometz and the depletion of inventory in liquor stores is slower than in supermarkets. Locally, one may purchase alcoholic beverages from, RiteAid (Highland Park), which is a non-Jewish owned corporation.

Etz Ahaim's Complete Passover Guide

Chag kasher v'sameach to all of our members and friends. We are honored and privileged to bring you this Pesach bulletin.

As we approach this holiday, I would like to bless you that Hashem will fulfill all of our desires, and you will succeed in all of your endeavors.

This month, the month of Nisan, which is the head of all months, should be a new start for all of us to look to the future and try our best to bring peace and love in our community. We should pray for complete redemption, since this is the right month for redemption. As chazal taught us "just as we were redeemed from Egypt, we will also be redeemed in the future".

During the two seder nights we drink four cups of wine. As it's known, the reason for the four cups of wine is that they correspond to four types of redemption: v'hotzaiti, that Hashem took us out of Egypt, v'hitzalti, that he rescued Am Yisrael, v'higalti, he redeemed us, and v'lakachti, he took us as a nation.

There are many explanations for those four categories, and I would like to suggest an explanation from a philosophical perspective. The first salvation is by physically taking a person out of prison, in this case taking the nation out of Egypt. The basic salvation is the changing of location. The second salvation is to change the mindset of a slave, especially a slave that was burdened for many years under the Egyptians, him, his parents, his grandparents, and his great grandparents, for 210 years. It is very difficult to change the mindset of a slave after so many years that feel they are second class citizens. Eventually, he comes to the realization he is not a slave anymore, in location and mindset. The third salvation is his goal in life. He starts thinking long term, since he can accomplish his goals in life freely. Finally, the most important salvation is that we are under the control of God. We belong to the nation of God, and nobody can harm us without the permission of God, as it is said multiple times in Chazal. If God forbid something happens, we know that it only happens because Hashem loves us.

Wishing you all the good in the world,
Rabbi Tal

Passover Schedule

Tuesday, April 4 – Erev Pesach

  • Search for Chametz after 7:56pm

Wednesday, April 5 – Passover Eve & Fast of the First Born

NO Eating Matzah the entire day (young children are exempt)

  • Shacharit 6:30am

  • Siyum Masechet for the Bechorot 7:20am

  • Stop eating Chametz before 10:27am

  • Burn / destroy / remove all Chametz before 11:44am

  • No Work After 1:00pm

  • Stop eating Mezonot 4:20pm

  • Prepare Eruv Tavshillin (to permit cooking on Friday for Shabbat) before 7:08pm

  • Mincha & Arvit, including Hallel 7:00pm

  • Candle Lighting 7:08pm

  • Eat Afikomen before 1:00am

Thursday, April 6 – First Day of Hag

  • Shacharit 8:45am

  • Recite Shema before 9:07am

  • Class on the Haggadah by Rabbi Tal 6:30pm

  • Mincha and Arvit, and Hallel, followed by Counting ‘Omer day 1 7:00pm

  • Candle lighting 7:58pm

Friday, April 7 – Second Day of Chag

  • Shacharit 8:45am

  • Recite Shema before 9:06am

  • Class on Halachah by Rabbi Tal 6:30pm

  • Mincha and Arvit, followed by Counting ‘Omer day 2 7:00pm

  • Candle lighting 7:10pm

Shabbat, April 8 – Shabbat Hol haMo’ed

  • Shacharit 8:45am

  • Recite Shema before 9:05am

  • Class by Rabbi Tal 6:20pm

  • Mincha 7:00pm

    • Se’udah Sh’lishit sponsored by Rabbi Tal & Family

  • Arvit and Havdalah, followed by Counting ‘Omer day 3 8:00 pm

Sunday, April 9 – Chol Hamoed

  • Shacharit Sunday 8:00am

  • Weekday 6:30am

  • Mincha and Arvit, followed by Counting ‘Omer 7:00pm

Monday, April 10 — Chol Hamoed

  • Shacharit 6:30am

  • Mincha and Arvit, followed by Counting ‘Omer 7:00pm

Tuesday — Erev Chag

  • Shacharit Sunday 6:30am

  • Mincha and Arvit, followed by Counting ‘Omer 7:00pm

  • Candle Lighting 7:14pm

Wednesday, April 12 - Chag (Seventh Day)

  • Shacharit 8:45am

  • Recite Shema before 9:01am

  • Yizkor 10:40am

  • Mincha andArvit, followed by Counting ‘Omer day 7 7:00pm

  • Candle Lighting 8:05pm

Thursday, April 13 – Last Day of Chag

  • Shacharit 8:45am

  • Recite Shema before 9:00am

  • Mincha 7:00pm

  • Arvit and Havdalah, followed by Counting ‘Omer day 8 8:06pm

Do not eat Chametz that was sold by Rabbi Tal before 9:30pm